Unless you find your unique & divine balance, you’re going to compare yourself to others, live your life like others, or feel inappropriately special or condemned. Finding your unique place will not affect your today and probably not your next year. But try 10 years. You could become YOUR ideal self, but not the person God wants you to be.
If you’re a disciplined student of successful people of the past, you could duplicate their habits and principles and turn into a one-of-a-kind copy cat. Someday, we all will need to stop envying others, quit following formulas but follow God and become our true selves.